tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607781988249666421.post3122918845286958433..comments2009-04-18T11:36:16.520-05:00Analytical Divanoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607781988249666421.post-14627802005263496312009-04-18T11:36:00.000-05:002009-04-18T11:36:00.000-05:00Appreciate your insight! While I can't undo what I said, what blew my mind was the insecurity he presented. What I was asking for was not much. And, it actually came up through a question he provoked: "So, what was the deal? Were there any hook ups, crushes during that time? I know you GOTTA know." And that's when it all came out.<br /><br />Case in point: It was a whole 2 - 3 years before we'd went out. But yet I was out with the one I wanted. I guess if anything, it would seem laughable. I know more now, though. I've kept my lips a little more buttoned up since then. :-) <br /><br />Does insecurity really run that deep?The Analytical Divahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12551078505528499351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2607781988249666421.post-76867594316303655452009-04-17T16:21:00.000-05:002009-04-17T16:21:00.000-05:00Wow, you did that. Not good. Normally, it takes a guy to do something like that. 'Oh wow, yeah you know her. I used to be so in love with her. blah blah blah.' Translation: 'I love that girl so much or my crush was so big, if she'd wanted meeee, Lord Jesus, I wouldn't be here with you right now probably wasting my time. Literal Translation: Let's take a moment to thank our sponsors, who by rejecting me, in effect cleared my calendar making me available to you. The only way you could have made that worse would have been to talk about some guy you actually dated that dumped you that you never got over, to whom you'd run if he'd but open his arms to you one more time. Dude should have been honest with you about what you did. Had the sexes been reversed and you been a guy and he the girl, there would have been a discussion about it for sure.Preternaturalhttp://www.backtype.com/Preternaturalnoreply@blogger.com